As alot of people who follow my work may know that I travel! Being a traveling photographer can be great but it can take a toll on relationships, whether it is with family, a friend or significant other. In many cases it maybe a significant other. Before my current relationship my motto was "Love wont pay the bills" but now I always say "Love has everything to do with happiness".
Over the past three years since I have started EJ IMAGING I have noticed that is not relationships that get in the way of your success; dating is. Dating is extremely time consuming and if you are doing it right at times it can suck away 24 hours in a 26 hour day! Just joking. But in between the phone calls , texting , the consistent babbling to friends about your new prospect, can cause an ambitious girl to be drastically less productive. But it all boils down that it is necessary, but you have to learn "THE ART OF BALANCE", balancing your leisure with your ambitions for success.
Think about this:
You are working on a LONG LONG LONG term project, which will take up a majority of your time and ENERGY! You have no BETTER HALF (boyfriend or girlfriend), absolutely no time to date; you become depressed and distracted as your deadline inches closer and closer. If you did have a better half to bring you carryout, or pizza would that not turn your night right side up?
But remember:
A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD SUPPORT NEVER HINDER
The deepest thought I have had all week was;
Lets just say being alone is easier----- is that what we really want though?!
Happy Loving!

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